Everyone probably know by now that a sex toy is an item used to increase pleasure within themselves. A vibrator or a dildo can be used for this. There are a variety of sex toys out there ranging from different size, colour, shape and also its usage. There are the ones that is used for internal sex pleasure and there are the ones that is used for external sexual pleasure.
Although we have come a long way in terms of the evolution in sex toys, the topic still remains as a taboo in society and especially among Asians. People in general still find it ashamed to talk about it in public, amidst of people. They are ashamed of saying it out that they use it and some even view sex toys as a sign of poor sex life. In most of the times the usage of sex toys has nothing to do about people’s personal sex life, if is often used as a tool of pleasure. In certain occasion it helps partners to enhance their sexual intimacy between one another.
It has been proven psychologically that sex toys are actually beneficial for people. Let’s look at a few aspects of it.
- Sex toys helps you communicate better with your partner
Psychologist suggests that incorporating the usage of sex toys in sexual activities has the ability to improve communication in general. They tend to communicate with each other on how they feel while engaging themselves with their partners. Let’s say if you have any sort of discomfort or you don’t really like how it’s been used, then you can tell your partner about it. It creates a type of open communication about your needs and desires without any fear that you would hurt them. Communication stands as the key component of building any healthy relationship
- Helps you sleep better
Sleep is the most essential element for any human to continue functioning. Having sex and masturbating is proven to improve your sleep quality. This is because oxytocin and endorphins are released in the process, making you feel much more calmer and relaxed. Women’s find it hard to do orgasm without the help of stimulation of external things. Here is the place where you can use the help of sex toys to help you fulfil your sexual desires. Lack of sexual activities would result in frustration which would lead to lack of sleep
- Improve your image and body confidence.
It has been psychologically proven that people who masturbate regularly have a greater self confidence. This would also improve their sexual confidence. This is because sex toys allows people to experiment their bodies and they do not have to fear of anything as it is a activity that can be done alone hence no one gets to judge you. When you understand your body, you begin to develop love and respect towards your own body and once you have gained self love, you feel much more confident about your own body